This is why family dynamics fall into place. I cant help being so careful in my choices for a LIFE long partner. Really its .. not a business partner where you can just split the shares of the company and just go separate ways.
LIFE LONG. Kinda means for better or for worst. And in this case, its worse. Awful and Annoyingly WORST. Blame my possible exageration and biasness on violent Tv and lack of MAJOR communication.
Parents. Insist on principles and set cultures for how you want to build up your own personalised family~ (Whippie! with a tad of sarcasm) You wont believe it but its so dang important to have these values. Even harder to keep it going as your kids grow up. ( Good luck with that)
Kids. Just do the right thing. Whatever makes sense to you and try our best to be independent against society. If your parents teach you well. Instilling values and what nots. Good for you. If not. You'll still live. Just maybe if your lucky you get to realize when you reach a certain age you can set your own values and thereafter continue to live by them.
Why cant people just do their roles well. Suck it up and be a MOM and DAD. I get the whole crap about eveyone is kinda not trained for the job. But Gosh.. What happens to self help books and other "EXTRA enrichment classes".
KIds when you grow up and BEFORE! you have kids of your own. See Parent Guide 101 and my little blurp above.
Good luck and Good life peeps.
